No matter if you are 1 day old or 100 years old we all want to be seen for who we are. I am here to see you in the wholeness of who you are.

Meet Nixie

Hello and welcome to my website and thank you for your curiosity.

I empower and support people who are feeling stuck and seeking change in their life. Whether this is with a relationship with a loved one or looking into patterns and habits that are no longer serving them. Such as difficulties with family members, health issues, dissatisfied with work and so on. I specialise in helping couples and individuals through challenging times, integrating Person-centred Counselling, Systemic Family Constellations and Internal Family Systems.

I believe that life is an incredible journey, not always easy, but when we see it as a journey of exploration and growth, with courage and compassion and support from the right people tremendous changes can occur.


For the last 25 years I have been exploring and wondering about life. Life as a human fascinates me. Why do we find ourselves in certain situations? Why do we attract the mates we do? How can we improve our level of happiness? How can we not be triggered by others? What is our connection to Spirit? Does Spirit live in us? Are we all one? And so on and so on.

My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married when were 27, lived in Australia for 4 years and we have 2 gorgeous children and 4 wonderful dogs. We live in the middle of the bucolic English Hampshire countryside.

Over the years I have personally engaged in thousands of hours of learning, constellating, counselling and exploring the challenges, wonders, trials and tribulations of being a spiritual soul in a human body.

Personal journey

I absolutely love my job, I always have done. I feel humbled and honoured to be present with my clients in their courage, strength and determination as they confront and overcome their own challenges.

I have recently completed Level 1 Internal Family Systems (IFS) training with IFS UK, Advanced Couples Training with Juliet Greyson and with the Centre for Systemic Constellations and I am in my 3rd year of training with the Centre for Systemic Constellations. Previous to this I took time out to be a full-time mother to our boys and before that I was a Chopra Centre yoga teacher, mindfulness and mediation teacher, Integrated health coach and I completed my counselling training 20 years ago in Sydney, Australia where I lived for 4 years.

Through all these past years I have counselled and taught numerous people, from teachers, to business men and women, to children, to acupuncturists, to mums, to dads and a whole lot more particularly with mindfulness and meditation in how to find their own inner peace. I have my own regular supervision, therapy and spiritual practice. I have been on countless trainings and read hundreds of books. All of this shall continue as I have a great thirst for learning, growing and expanding my own inner world so that I can be the best support and guide for my clients.

I am an Accredited Registrant of the National Counselling Society.
The path to healing your negative self talk is to greet your words and bodies with gentle loving warmth and tenderness.

Regardless of age or painful life experiences you can change and heal.

Professional Accreditations

2022 – 2033 Advanced Training in Systemic Constellations (CSC)

2022 Internal Family Systems Level 1 Training with IFS UK
2021-22 Couples Training with Juliet Grayson
2020-22 Couples Training with The Centre for Systemic Constellations (CSC)
2021 Applied Training in System Constellations (CSC)
2020 Foundation in Systemic Constellations (CSC)
2016 School of the Modern Mystic, Belinda Davidson
2015 Institute of Integrative Nutrition Coaching (IIN)
2007 Chopra Centre Yoga Teacher Training, USA Chopra Centre
2005 Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy. Bangor University
5005 Advanced Pranic Healing, Institute of Inner Studies UK
2004 Space Clearing with Karen Kingston
2001-03 Dip in Counselling from The Hammond Institute in Sydney, Australia
1996 Dying and Bereavement Support The Bristol Cancer Help Centre
1996 Cruse Bereavement Care
1996 London School of Reflexology
1996 BA Hons Oxford Brookes University. Curriculum Studies

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I believe in slowing down

I believe in simply being

I believe that it takes a village to raise a child

I believe in hopping into bed in the afternoon for a rest

I believe in listening to the body’s inner wisdom with tenderness

I believe in the incredible healing power of self-warmth and self-kindness

I believe in building a relationship with the part of our brain that knows warm and coziness

I believe in changing our minds

I believe in embracing human imperfections

I believe that whatever happens, it simply is the way it is

I believe in listening to our needs and voicing them

I believe in the importance of an emotional, spiritual, physical tool bag that we can dip into when needed

I believe that being seen and heard with tenderness and warmth is powerful medicine

I believe that dogs are a human’s best friend

I believe in the importance of equal giving and receiving with loved ones

I believe in your experience of life

I believe in the knowing field of a higher consciousness

I believe in the healing power of being fully present for another

I believe in be-friending our thoughts with warmth

“Nixie has an amazing innate ability to use different approaches to guide me through emotional and historical events, and with her warmth, encouragement and sincerity. I have gained inner strength and acceptance. I never want our sessions to end!”